So, you know you want to travel. More than that, you’ve decided that you will travel! The firm commitment has been made, and you’re actively saving and planning. A date has been set and excitement is building.

The hardest part of planning a big trip is narrowing it down. Once you realize that the world really is  your oyster, and that the possibilities really are limitless, it becomes a very big project indeed.

You could go anywhere. You could do anything. How will you decide? How will you narrow it down? How do you know where to start, where to end, and what you want to do most?

Breathe into a paper bag with me for a minute, and let’s look at five questions that you can ask yourself to begin to find direction and lay out the skeleton of your first big adventure.

This question is obvious, but it’s one that often gets lost in the shuffle of guidebooks, websites, and blogs. Everyone has their favorite place, their bucket list, and their top ten. It’s easy to get sucked into that, to begin to think that you have to do what someone else did, follow the big footprints of a hero, or the prescribed RTW itinerary of the guy who you secretly want to be when you grow up.

Here’s a secret: The path to happiness and your adventure is not found in a guidebook or on your favorite blog.

Take a step back. Think about your life, your interests, and what has inspired you to want to take this trip in the first place. Ask yourself, “Where have I always wanted to go?”

Perhaps you fell in love with a particular place through a book, or a teacher, or the Cambodian kid you sat next to in seventh grade. Perhaps you’ve had a love affair with a particular cuisine for a decade. Perhaps it’s that postcard that’s been taped on your fridge for years, the one you escape into with your mind when you want to be anywhere but here.

Sometimes your first destination is a no brainer, or it should be:Go to the place that you’ve always wanted to be in.

Read How to Decide Where to Go on a RTW Trip

A very valid question to ask early in the planning process centers around just how “outside of your box” you want to get on your first journey. Some people want to dive into the deep end and drown a little. Other people are more interested in getting their feet wet slowly.

If you speak only one language, and you haven’t honed your hand signs and sense of humor yet, perhaps you want to consider that in your planning. If you speak three languages fluently, then there’s a much wider swath of the planet that will be considered “easy” for you to travel in.

It’s not just the literal languages you should consider, but the figurative ones as well. Are you fluent in “travel?” Are you third-world savvy? Are you comfortable with being uncomfortable?

Be honest with yourself about the skills you bring to the table and how far you want to stretch yourself. Spend some time learning the “languages” you need as you go!

Read How and Why to Learn a Foreign Language and Budget Language Study: 5 Alternative Locations Around the World

The guidebooks will all tell you when the “best” time to visit a particular region is, and the “best” time can also be translated to “high season,” which can also be translated, “expensive” and “crowded.” Yes, this also tends to mean “best weather” as well, but there is so much more to consider for “when” to visit a place.

There are often very good reasons to travel in the absolute opposite of high season, and the shoulder seasons on either side are even better yet, in most cases.

By traveling in the shoulder seasons, or low season, you’ll avoid the throng of holiday makers, you’ll get better rates on everything from accommodations to tours, and you’ll find that the traveler to local ratio is much more favorable. Especially if your goal is to see the “real” place that you’re visiting.

Here’s another secret: After six plus years of life on the road, we now actively plan to avoid high season virtually everywhere we go. It saves us thousands of dollars, and we have a much better “local” experience.

Read Solidifying Your RTW Route

This is another one of those questions that seems obvious but often isn’t. The length of your trip will determine not only the breadth but the depth of it as well. If you have only 3 months and you’re attempting a classic RTW itinerary, then you have to accept that you’re going to hit the highlights and not a whole lot more. If you have a year to do the same route, then you’re going to add depth by virtue of the additional time.

Are you planning to move forward the whole time and stay in hostels? Or are you planning to rent local places for weeks to months at a time and dig a little deeper in the regions that matter to you?

Are you planning to go clear around the globe and check lots of things off of your list? Or are you thinking that maybe you’ll just focus on two or three countries and learn a language, do some volunteer work, and go “deep instead of wide” for a while?

When thinking about how much you’re going to see in the amount of time you have, especially if you’re a first-timer to this whole long-term travel thing, keep in mind that the slower you go, the less cities and countries you see, the less money you’ll spend.

Moving fast and seeing more = spending more. Period.

That’s not to say that you shouldn’t do that – everyone needs to do what’s right for their trip, but when talking with folks who have traveled long-term before and asking them what they’d do differently, the most common response we hear is, “I wish I would have moved a slower pace.”

Would you like the saddest secret of all: The longer you have, the longer you travel, the more you’ll realize what you haven’t seen.

Read The Benefits of Slowing Down on your RTW Trip

Is this your first trip, or your fifteenth? Have you gone at it alone before, or is this your premiere solo journey? Do you speak the language? Do you need things pre-planned, or are you experienced at playing things by ear?

There are lots of ways to do your first adventure, no matter what destination you settle on. How confident you are in your own ability to keep all of the balls in the air should be a determining factor in how you decide to travel. Maybe you’re ready to hit the road alone. Perhaps you’d feel better taking a friend. It could be that you’re cool with just booking the tickets and leaving the rest to fate. But you might enjoy it more if you had at least some of your plans, near the beginning of the trip at least, carved in stone.

If this really is your very first trip, you don’t speak the languages, you haven’t gotten the experience outside of your own culture, and you’re taking a big leap of faith, then perhaps you want to book that multi-stop plane ticket and have your itinerary set rather than buying one-ways and figuring it out as you go.

Unless you have an unlimited budget, if you decide to buy one-way flights as you go, you’ll be spending a lot of your time on the road trying to find a good price on that next flight when you decide where it is you’re going next (which also takes time!). While the idea of waking up one morning in Rio and saying, “I want to go to Paris today,” sure is romantic, the reality of the situation is that you most likely aren’t going to be able to find an affordable, last minute flight across the world.

Check out Indie and AirTreks for airfare options for your big trip. 

Another option is to begin your trip with a short stint with a small group adventure company. That’s a great way to get your feet wet. We met so many young people camping their way across Europe in tour buses, having a fantastic time, and building confidence along the way.

We slept on raft houses in Thailand with a group of girls who were on a two week “Intro to Thailand” tour, in which a guide brought them up to speed on Thai culture and customs, basic words and phrases, as well as giving them the skills they needed to navigate public transportation on their own. It was an “easy” way to dive into a totally foreign experience, and a way to stack the deck towards a positive experience on your first leap outside the box.

Remember: Travel is not a contest! Do it your way!

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